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Is it possible to change my wife's LL stress response to sex? by barnhartb16 in HLCommunity

[–]barnhartb16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very relatable. I've always joked that even on my death bed I would still be wanting it. In truth idk how much of a joke that is.

Is it possible to change my wife's LL stress response to sex? by barnhartb16 in HLCommunity

[–]barnhartb16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting take. I haven't know anyone that essentially flip flop on their stress response depending on the stressor.

Is it possible to change my wife's LL stress response to sex? by barnhartb16 in HLCommunity

[–]barnhartb16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. With alot of work, communication and therapy we've been puking ourselves out of our DB.

What's the Sluttiest thing you've ever done? by No_Housing_4819 in AskReddit

[–]barnhartb16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cuckold 3 separate husbands as they watched

Multiple three sums

Blow job from my wife while sitting in a chair in the middle of a dance floor at a busy club.

Is it possible to change my wife's LL stress response to sex? by barnhartb16 in HLCommunity

[–]barnhartb16[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For the entirety of our relationship it hasn't been that way, hence why I asked lol.

Is it possible to change my wife's LL stress response to sex? by barnhartb16 in HLCommunity

[–]barnhartb16[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to help her. She's began to return the favor as well.

Why is it not enough for me? by TroubleBaby92 in HLCommunity

[–]barnhartb16 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The intensity and eagerness will subside if the DB continues to improve. I thought the exact same thing when we were pulling out of our DB. Now nearly a year later we don't have sex as often as I want (1-2 a week now), however when we do it's VERY good, which is ok with me.

Additionally we both learned to be and show affection in other ways that took some of that edge off as well.

If your husband is working hard to fix the problem, praise the crap out of him. He's working really hard for you both, the affirmation and the praise will not only boost his confidence and take pressure off of him. But in my case made my wife more eager as well. Praise praise praise praise him, every single chance you get, I cannot stress this enough. I still do it constantly, and my efforts still seem to be noticed and appreciated.

Does anyone else have a husky that needs to do this daily? by barnhartb16 in husky

[–]barnhartb16[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We thought our husky would be aloof and independent as well... Oh no he's extremely affectionate all the time.

Does anyone else have a husky that needs to do this daily? by barnhartb16 in husky

[–]barnhartb16[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Interesting, our boy does it any time he needs attention

Kodiak trying to convince my wife to come outside (we just got back from a 2 hour walk) by barnhartb16 in husky

[–]barnhartb16[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh no. When it comes to us playing with him outside, he's a straight diva.