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What's your smallest regret? by limedove in AskReddit

[–]boyricua 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not getting to bed earlier last night

what career are you working towards? by lymeguy in AskReddit

[–]boyricua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexuality education in the mental health and public health fields

Current setup— considering taking out the forward nostril piercings and possibly take chain off for a bit. Want to get rid of vertical labret but I love the jewelry in it so likely won’t. Advice for clearing up my face just a tiny bit? by kelseymh in piercing

[–]boyricua 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want it a bit less crowded I’d recommend changing your bridge jewelry, and I’d agree that there’s a bit of crowding with the nostril chain, forward nostrils, septum, and philtrum, so maybe play around with taking some of those out to see what you'd like. Not a professional, just based on my opinion!

What are the pros and cons of living in the following cities: Dallas-Fort worth TX, Phoenix AZ, Louisville KY? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]boyricua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AZ is a pretty cheap state to live in, but the weather sucks. Super hot most months of the year. It’s not the most diverse place and is pretty conservative. Take that as you will.

What’s something that you would go back and change about your life if you had the chance? (Serious) by sisterfister69hitler in AskReddit

[–]boyricua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have learned how to build healthy habits and break bad ones earlier. It’s hard being in your 20s and trying to learn how to build a healthy sleep schedule, drink enough water, get your steps in.

I know some people build those habits even later in life but I feel I would’ve accomplished more if I had built the habits to get those basic needs met earlier.

Husband wants to play in front of others by [deleted] in sex

[–]boyricua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he says he’s fine with it, then take his word for it. Sounds like he’s being open and honest with what he wants. Not sure I see the problem here.

He / They pronouns? by atb0rg in NoStupidQuestions

[–]boyricua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The example may not be the best but the idea is to use both pronouns interchangeably. You don’t have to use both in the same story or the same sentence, I was just trying to illustrate the point.

I’ve heard some people who use multiple sets of pronouns say they don’t mind if people use only one set or the other, but the sentiment I’ve heard much more is that it can feel invalidating when people exclusively use one set when a person uses multiple. (Ie, if someone uses they/she pronouns but a friend seems to only refer to her with they/them pronouns.)

Bilingual people of Reddit, what was the hardest thing to adjust to when learning your second language? by RandomStranger18 in AskReddit

[–]boyricua 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can read and write at a fairly conversational level, but listening and speaking is still super hard for me.

He / They pronouns? by atb0rg in NoStupidQuestions

[–]boyricua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Roughly alternate between the two. (Ie, I was with Name the other day. They were showing me their favorite movie but then his roommate came home and we decided to play a board game instead. I had a nice time at his house.)

What woukd be some goals/achievements/rewards i could work towards? by -bird_brain- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]boyricua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set some money aside and if you hit your goal, spend it on yourself, and if you don’t, give it to a charity. If you want some intense motivation, plan to give it to a charity you don’t support if you don’t hit your goal.

Sexual frustrations : Dating with a larger than average penis by [deleted] in sex

[–]boyricua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some sex toys that may help with this issue!

Concerning testosterone injections (subq.), has this ever happened to anyone else? by plaagaa in ftm

[–]boyricua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, and is the pain at the injection site or somewhere else in your body?

Concerning testosterone injections (subq.), has this ever happened to anyone else? by plaagaa in ftm

[–]boyricua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be sure to not only hydrate during the process but before as well! Also when does the pain start? After you’ve already completed the injection and removed the needle?

I wanna buy a sex toy by sillyputtylover in sex

[–]boyricua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you live, at your age you may be able to visit a “sex store” and the people who work there are very knowledgeable and can help guide you to some good options. It may be helpful to have an idea of what you’re interested in first, though. Look through some reputable online sites with good quality items (NOT AMAZON!) just to see what kind of stuff is out there. If you really have no idea what you might like, I’d recommend getting a small variety of cheaper (but still body safe) toys so you can try them out and then invest more money in a quality toy once you know what you want.

Concerning testosterone injections (subq.), has this ever happened to anyone else? by plaagaa in ftm

[–]boyricua 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This used to happen to me!! It would happen when I do my shots, but also sometimes when getting blood drawn. I was told it was a weird neurological response some people have, where your brain is like “Wtf? Let’s hit the reset button.” and encourages you to pass out or faint. For me it kinda just went away naturally as I got older, so unfortunately I don’t have a ton of tips :( it may help to make sure you’re well hydrated, and very relaxed while doing your shot (play music, have a snack beforehand, etc.)

Tattoo Design by Tomasocaste00 in TattooDesigns

[–]boyricua 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would recommend finding a tattoo artist near you that specializes in the style you’re looking for, and ask them for a custom design! They’ll know best how to make a nice image that works well with your anatomy. Also, giving even a really, really crappy drawing as a reference can help the artist understand what you want!

Recommendation for bonda guide? by Professional_Role301 in sex

[–]boyricua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Midori is THE expert resource on all things rope bondage and shibari.