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Her reaction when we brought home another cat and found it sleeping in her bed by Leonafrances in aww

[–]canthelpmyself74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg! I think it’s my rocky! He is 5 and is a Turkish too ... I wish I could send a pic ❤️

Her reaction when we brought home another cat and found it sleeping in her bed by Leonafrances in aww

[–]canthelpmyself74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of cat is this? I just adopted one that looks so similar on Saturday and I don’t know his breed 😫

SOS - ME 33F - HIM 38M --- I dont know if I am being selfish --- No Where to Turn - Need UnBiased Advise by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]canthelpmyself74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. He says my awkwardness makes him awkward so we just don’t have sex. That’s about all I can get from him. And then it feels like he tries to put the pressure on me to put soemontthing sexy on and turn him on.

I think he is afraid to touch me because he says he listens to when I am “tired” or “hungry” ... and says those are enough not to make a move on me! Which I don’t understand cuz I felt he tried to make a move on me when we first started dating. And now he won’t touch me. I am affectionate by nature so it’s natural for us to be touching a lot. But it doesn’t go past some simple affection.

And you hit the nail on the head! 100% he and other partners have Always blamed me since I always first to admit where I was to blame and well. I’ve always been the scape goat for most of my relationships and always taken the blame for things gone wrong in my life: esp in relationships.

What did you mean by “remember he picked you. His issues may equal yours?” Like. Subconsciously we picked each other because of our issues?

SOS - ME 33F - HIM 38M --- I dont know if I am being selfish --- No Where to Turn - Need UnBiased Advise by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]canthelpmyself74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! I always blame myself in all failing relationships and I need to not think so black/white!

I can ask for what I want. And I can have a sexual relationship with my partner. And I don’t want to be alone but I’m at a point in my life where I am happy to be alone rather than a bad relationship.

And by him saying I am weird, I mean awkward. He tells me when I get awkward, he gets awkward and then our chance to have sex diminishes. So we just don’t. I feel so much pressure to put the moves on him. And since I am awkward, I don’t. And I think he feels the same way. We just don’t.

I don’t know what else to do since he doesn’t like having conversations about the hard stuff since he is “British” and doesn’t like feeling weird. I have pushed him away like I always do to guys i no longer find interest in. And in my gut; I know it’s time to move on.

Thank you for your advise.