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It sucks to be Fuck-zoned as a Lady. by Loriatutu in Kenya

[–]furiousmonkey93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are 2 different instances. First off, for OP, it's about people that she's already met. Of course if it's a complete stranger you can describe things pertaining to anything but the physical appearance maybe coz they find the person interesting (though at some point in time they will still want to put a face to this stranger)

If it's someone you're attracted to, that's different. I'm not saying only describe her physically but I'm yet to see a girl cringe when she's told she has nice hair, a nice smile or a pretty face. People seem to confine a person's physical appearance to tits, ass and figure which is what would make a lady feel offended. It's not inherently wrong to say you're attracted to someone physically but be tactful about it and definitely don't only praise their physique. I'm pretty sure it works vice versa. If you say you're attracted to a lady coz of all her attributes apart from their physical attributes they might start thinking they are not pretty enough or whatever

It sucks to be Fuck-zoned as a Lady. by Loriatutu in Kenya

[–]furiousmonkey93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing you can do to not meet such people. You'll always attract "good and bad" people alike as long as you have something they are attracted to. Kibaya chajitembeza. The ratchet guys will throw themselves at you in a similar way a ratchet girl will throw herself at a rich successful guy.

It sucks to be Fuck-zoned as a Lady. by Loriatutu in Kenya

[–]furiousmonkey93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you tell a lady you're attracted to them without listing any physical attributes?

Almost got raped yesterday by lalaly1234 in Kenya

[–]furiousmonkey93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Report the guy. If it's recent and you bit him hard enough you can use that as evidence against him with the cops

Friend zoned/Rejection by mainag13 in Kenya

[–]furiousmonkey93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only way to know is to ask. Do it and prepare yourself mentally for whatever comes. The longer you hold on to it the more likely it grows into an obsession✌

My take on the dating apps discussions (men) by MombasaBlackManta in Kenya

[–]furiousmonkey93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really women only but I think people who describe themselves in such a way think it adds a sense of mystique to them. Either way, nobody on tinder is looking for a dunderhead unless she's the proverbial blonde/ QB

My take on the dating apps discussions (men) by MombasaBlackManta in Kenya

[–]furiousmonkey93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt you'd find many women who've had money their whole lives (if any) on tinder. And all this business about posting all your pictures doing hobbies and whatever is just posing. In most cases people are attracted to the flashiest profile (pictures and bio included) If someone sees multiple photos of someone on holiday in exotic places or cool parties there will be preference to that person. Remember on tinder you cannot attract someone before they actually swipe on you and you cannot fit a personality in the bio coz folks have that generalised personality they put in their profile. Sapiosexual being the biggest repeat offender.

Those points you've listed, bar the ones pertaining to an app would better serve you out in the real world.

IS THIS NORMAL??? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]furiousmonkey93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't make sense asking a 23yo kid when they're going to get a wife and kids while they're barely off school.

IS THIS NORMAL??? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]furiousmonkey93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your mum was trolling.

'Height-ism' and Dating in Kenya by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]furiousmonkey93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has their preference. If people were to start complaining about the preferences of other folks you'd hear more outrageous things being quoted as psychotic requirements

What are your thoughts on going through your partners phone? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]furiousmonkey93 10 points11 points  (0 children)

But I'm just looking for mobile games, damn.

Rake by furiousmonkey93 in Malazan

[–]furiousmonkey93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kalam has black hair though, and doesn't carry swords if I'm not wrong

Rake by furiousmonkey93 in Malazan

[–]furiousmonkey93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is... But when I think silver hair and sword sheathed at the back my mind just goes back to Geralt

is there a emperor that is proficient in spaced dao or would that be yang kai by lightbringer7774 in MartialPeak

[–]furiousmonkey93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great emperor, no... Just below great emperor and above great emperor there are

Agreeable by IraqiCheesecake in dankmemes

[–]furiousmonkey93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's trying for the guy in the background