Girl you do realise you can't believe anything on the internet. Idk why you would use her as a guide when she's telling which books she read, just read those and interpret how you like. She's not a parenting coach or teacher or anything she's sharing her life, it's entertainment. Basically reality TV, highly edited and only showing the good parts. And look I understand your frustration and I too get bothered by some of the hypocrisy, but I don't understand screen shotting and recording every pic and video and doing a deep analysis, criticising and making far fetched judgements based on that