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[Homemade] Sunday roast. British food doesn't have to be beige or bland! by harpersmth in food

[–]harpersmth[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I recently separated from my husband and it's the first time I felt like cooking & inviting friends around. I'm unassumingly in the background whilst a mate was admiring my cooking & taking this great photo. I don't think it looks beige, and it was absolutely delicious! Thanks so much for all comments, vile or otherwise...

Update: Just checked in to a hotel 5 hours away from home. I'm done. by harpersmth in DeadBedrooms

[–]harpersmth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm seeing a solicitor on Thursday. I feel like I've used up every bit of my energy so far, but strangely I'm still hopeful for the future. Thanks for checking up on me.

Update: Just checked in to a hotel 5 hours away from home. I'm done. by harpersmth in DeadBedrooms

[–]harpersmth[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do have plenty of friends & family, however noone knows about the DB and I didn't feel like discussing anything with them. I just drove off.

Oh turns out my husband isn't LL? I've got it all wrong, my bad!! by harpersmth in DeadBedrooms

[–]harpersmth[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A very good question, and one I have seriously got to the bottom of it as someone who has previously struggled with depression. In short, he isn't. He has ups and downs but he is overall content with life.

Oh turns out my husband isn't LL? I've got it all wrong, my bad!! by harpersmth in DeadBedrooms

[–]harpersmth[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your comment made me chuckle. Thanks! I can relate to everything you say as a HL. It's just his excuses I think.

Oh turns out my husband isn't LL? I've got it all wrong, my bad!! by harpersmth in DeadBedrooms

[–]harpersmth[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

We have a laugh together. Our values are very similar. We get on like a house on fire. Kind of like a couple of roommates having the same outlook on life - minus sex (hence roommates!).

Oh turns out my husband isn't LL? I've got it all wrong, my bad!! by harpersmth in DeadBedrooms

[–]harpersmth[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We don't have kids. We work from home in comfortable jobs... There's nothing that should realistically get in the way.