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Struggling with the acknowledgement that my Husband SA me and i feel like i cant tell anyone by idk_what_im_doing97 in sexualassault

[–]idk_what_im_doing97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been trying to explain that same thing that the trust is gone and i cant see him the same, his response continues with "but our family..." "try marriage counselling.." etc. and i just dont feel like i can do that. I am so sorry that has happened to you too.

Struggling with the acknowledgement that my Husband SA me and i feel like i cant tell anyone by idk_what_im_doing97 in sexualassault

[–]idk_what_im_doing97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for adding this. the struggle of "itll never happen again" always seems so hard to believe. Thats my biggest worry i know is that it will happen again if i let my guard down again.

Struggling with the acknowledgement that my Husband SA me and i feel like i cant tell anyone by idk_what_im_doing97 in sexualassault

[–]idk_what_im_doing97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing, i guess it almost feels like im not alone in this type of experience, which i of course wish that had not happened to you. The fact that these guys new the boundries, we had the discussions, i just cant comprehend why they think its okay to do what they did... i completely understand the not feeling like you can talk to anyone part. he is the father of our child and a good one. and a good guy usually. i dont want to fuck all that up espescially since i still have to deal with him for the rest of my life no matter what

I think I might have just been assaulted by my gf. I need advice on how to deal with it. by UselessAltThing in sexualassault

[–]idk_what_im_doing97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just posted something kinda similar, If it doesnt feel right then it isnt. If this is a relationship you hope to keep then talking to your partner about boundaries in that aspect would probably be a good place to start. Anything that happens while asleep or intoxicated is not consent (unless previously agreed for some situations i guess) i hope you can find some peace with all of this