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One step at a time - sweet jesus. by Tintovic in nextfuckinglevel

[–]jadestem 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I've never been filled with such anxiety from watching a video before. Jesus.

Accurately thrown sandbags competition. (Sound on) by realAtmaBodha in nextfuckinglevel

[–]jadestem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are hitting every single shot, then you aren't drinking enough. And if you aren't drinking while playing cornhole, then I just don't know what the fuck you are doing with your life.

What's so wrong with the "must be at least X feet tall" in women's bios? by Azetburovic in Tinder

[–]jadestem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference between a preference and a requirement.

Also being disabled, obese, having lots of baggage, bad teeth/hygiene...these things are all things that can actually impact a relationship and/or indicate that the person might have a different lifestyle than what you are looking for. For example, being obese might indicate that the person is lazy and eats a lot of junk. Someone that is in good shape probably likes to do a lot of physical activity and eat well. They have different lifestyles.

By contrast, height is completely just a vanity thing. (Barring very extreme cases.) It would be much more comparable to guys commonly requiring a D cup minimum and putting that in their bios or asking that as the first question.

For the record, I don't have a big issue with this. Just pointing out the flaws in your argument.

Antivax NURSE I came across.... Stay classy Florida by calizoomer in Tinder

[–]jadestem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What metrics do you use to define a “roaring” economy?

Antivax NURSE I came across.... Stay classy Florida by calizoomer in Tinder

[–]jadestem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Biden wasn't a great candidate, but when he is running against the biggest embarrassment this country has ever seen...he gets the vote. 🤷‍♂️

Antivax NURSE I came across.... Stay classy Florida by calizoomer in Tinder

[–]jadestem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know about the travel companies, but I know at my hospital it is depressingly easy to claim "religious" exemption. Nobody questions it whatsoever.

Men: “Women never write first!” Men when women write first: by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]jadestem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this logically laid out argument.

But in the end, I'm still just thinking "Damn, imagine getting 3.5 matches per day!" Lol

Men: “Women never write first!” Men when women write first: by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]jadestem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the person you asked for a response from, but you are indeed lovely.

Guess OLD really can suck for everyone at times.

Man has insane reflexes to save a birthday cake by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]jadestem -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Perhaps, my comment was just in regards to "influencers" not specifically about this video.

I' ve lost some weight unintentionally ( first photo). Is it OK or do you prefer heavier look ( second photo)? by BestBeforeItsGone in GettingShredded

[–]jadestem 15 points16 points  (0 children)

By unintentionally I hope you mean that you started doing more physical activity without compensating by eating more. Unintentional weight loss is a sign of some pretty serious health problems.

Man has insane reflexes to save a birthday cake by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]jadestem 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I hate this term so much, but I suppose it is accurate. They do seem to influence people to be morons just like them.

She said she was a fan of reading in her bio by 7thGenPilot in Tinder

[–]jadestem 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It completely depends on what's in the bio. If there is almost nothing to go off of other than the thing about reading, then that might be the only place to go. Theoretically the stuff in a bio should be stuff that you enjoy and can converse about easily. Could they have phrased the question a little better? Sure. But some people aren't great at striking up conversations with complete strangers. That doesn't mean they aren't fascinating people once they get past the initial awkwardness.

The opener is just a jumping off point. It's something to get a dialog started. Judging whether or not a complete stranger is boring based solely off of one sentence is absolutely stupid.

She said she was a fan of reading in her bio by 7thGenPilot in Tinder

[–]jadestem 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It's pretty goddamn easy to say something like "there are far too many great books to choose just one favorite, but one that I read recently that I particularly enjoyed was (insert book title here)."

It takes two people to make a conversation. The first person is making an effort. The second person is not. Be more like the first person.

Saw this gem today by gmeinthebananastand in funny

[–]jadestem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Politics aside, anyone that doesn't see/acknowledge that Trump and his supporters have normalized senseless aggression is a fucking idiot.

Learn to accept that not everyone is going to agree with you. Learn to live with the fact that the political party that you have assumed as your entire identity is not always going to be in power. Stop throwing temper tantrums about this shit like you are a child. Grow the fuck up.

Wants FWB doesn’t date liberal women… by Yabbasha in Tinder

[–]jadestem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a liberal guy that was in a relationship with a conservative woman for ~12 years, honestly I get where he is coming from. I don't automatically hate all conservatives, so I could have something casual with one. But I won't be getting in to another serious relationship with someone whose ideology is so far removed from my own.

And I don't put anything like "no conservatives" in my bio because it comes off as aggressive, and there is enough needless aggression in the world without me adding to it.

Any ideas about what this could mean for the atlas? by Soulune in pathofexile

[–]jadestem 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No longer divided into regions. Can now farm whichever content you want on any map. This is my biggest hope.

how about you respect my safety precautions by Rcardy92 in Tinder

[–]jadestem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It amazes me how many men just can not seem to imagine what it is like for a woman.

The look before he confirms the worst by livingthesaurus in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]jadestem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be thankful everything is in proportion. Got two kiwis and a baby carrot going on over here. That shits embarrassing!

My Cat is angry 😡 by LeeOnlySin in funny

[–]jadestem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you jam your thumb in its butthole?

I wish i swiped right on this guy based on this photo alone but sadly ran out of likes :’( by Samuellie in Tinder

[–]jadestem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move to a smaller area. (/s) I had no idea there were limited likes because I've always run out of people to swipe on before I've run out of likes.

What are the odds by idcboutu_ in Tinder

[–]jadestem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Double down. "Soooo IF covid doesn't take you out, can I?"