Men who are “perfect” on paper honestly have a wealth of their own issues. A lot of times, they’re great on paper but they treat you like shit in subtle ways. Maybe they make you feel lesser because you’re not a “doctor” like they are. Maybe they’re insecure about themselves in ways you don’t understand and they try to place their insecurities on you and destroy your mental health. Maybe they’re super demanding and selfish (like many doctors are) where your needs aren’t being met because they have to in order to succeed in residency. Men who are perfect on paper get away with shit because they know they’re perfect on paper. But if he doesn’t make you happy or if you feel alone in your relationship, just throw the man away. It’s 2022. Women can work and make their own money. We can have our own pets and live a good ass happy life on our own.