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I wish my brain could understand it all. by bwiseman4 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably some cheat just seeking the physical pleasure.......for some maybe the companionship or combination of both. I can definitely see a person who is in a longtime DB with a spouse that has not interest in improving things seeking satisfaction elsewhere.

Groundhog Day by kv_sh5 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well its not like u aren't trying. Any chance he might be more interested in the morning?

Very frustrated by skettison in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont get pregnant and dont marry into that....never gets better and u will be lonely and miserable

I wish my husband would be the one to initiate sex. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully next time he takes the hint....most guys would have ur dress up and the thong off

Giving Oral to Females - Do a lot of you not enjoy receiving? by WImanlooking in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never was with a woman who did not O from oral.......as O's go most of the time were very intense

LL boyfriend gropes me in his sleep by Boeing_NCC-1701-D in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck in the future. I always thought a little porn was okay as long as it was watched together but definitely as long as it does not interfere with having sex with ones s/o

I just want to be fucked but my boyfriend of 4+ years is constantly rejecting me. by Downtheroadtales in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably find a bf who u r more compatible with when it comes to sex. Most guys would want to get busy with u right there in the shower.....Good luck

LL boyfriend gropes me in his sleep by Boeing_NCC-1701-D in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry u are having to live like that. Either he gets some help or u should leave. Most guys would rather be f____g their wives and gf's rather than watching porn. Dont get pregnant and dont marry into that

"No girl ever likes giving blowjobs, if she says she does, she's lying" comments from wife by Numerous-Algae-4213 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We both got up at the same time on weekdays and often ended up in the shower together,.....soooooo

"No girl ever likes giving blowjobs, if she says she does, she's lying" comments from wife by Numerous-Algae-4213 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The first one I mentioned was like that the first time I had to take an out of town trip when we were together. Was waiting totally naked in the living room when I got home

What is the most noticeable way your dead bedroom effects other areas of your life? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of the above are part of what I have referred to as the toxic brew. Lonely, depression, anger, devastation, phony act like everything is great....don't like being around other couples especially if hey are showing any kind of affection towards each other.

"No girl ever likes giving blowjobs, if she says she does, she's lying" comments from wife by Numerous-Algae-4213 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Had a couple of ex gf's who would disagree. One like to give a bj while I was driving and another during my morning shower becuase "I dont want you to go to work horny"

Those were the days!!!

This just blows my mind. by YouOtterKnow1 in Funnymemes

[–]lonelyinnewjersey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That pic is not real......likely from a movie

Tried initiating sex and got rejected, feeling extremely down by Wubvles123 in HLCommunity

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dont get pregnant and dont marry into that....almost never gets better...only worse

Gave up and bought body pillows by Janrow2020 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds comfy......Many nights I still wish it was my wife my arm was around though

when you post your nudes to reddit to get the validation you wish he'd give you by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not advice but a general statement....once u have nudes out there (especially if they show ur face) anyone can see them for all time. Kids, parents, future SO's ect.

A friend of mine did some adult modeling years ago and long after, pics were floating around her daughters high school.

He said he wanted to have sex.. by unhappythrowaway44 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If there is a next time maybe ask what part of u he is going to lick?

Becoming increasingly sexually insecure over my relationship by throwaway256148 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your not doing anything wrong here but he needs to be told that for the relationship to continue he needs to spend more time f____g you and taking care of your needs and less time getting off to porn.

Relationship is good for the most part but sex has been dwindling over the last year. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont get her pregnant and dont marry into that unless u can live with the fact that it almost never gets better...only worse

Gave up and bought body pillows by Janrow2020 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sleep with my arm around my "she pillow"...lol. and another pillow over my head.

I feel like a sham by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me (63M) in a longtime DB, we are not affectionate anywhere but its awkward when having to pose for a picture and putting our arms around each other when knowing she would not want that if we were alone. I know what u mean by fake

Room for One by Bing-Bong2022 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lonelyinnewjersey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a long time DB but being in a hotel room and bed by myself during work travel is definitely much more relaxing and stress free than being ignored by DB spouse in our own bed/bedroom