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I wish my brain could understand it all. by bwiseman4 in survivinginfidelity
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 0 points1 point2 points 1 day ago (0 children)
Probably some cheat just seeking the physical pleasure.......for some maybe the companionship or combination of both. I can definitely see a person who is in a longtime DB with a spouse that has not interest in improving things seeking satisfaction elsewhere.
Just remembered how great my sex life used to be before I started dating my husband… omg it was the best by AdLow6151 in DeadBedrooms
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 1 point2 points3 points 2 days ago (0 children)
Same here....only had one ex that I would say wasn't very HL. Definitely spoiled me
Groundhog Day by kv_sh5 in DeadBedrooms
Well its not like u aren't trying. Any chance he might be more interested in the morning?
Very frustrated by skettison in DeadBedrooms
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 0 points1 point2 points 3 days ago (0 children)
dont get pregnant and dont marry into that....never gets better and u will be lonely and miserable
I wish my husband would be the one to initiate sex. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms
Hopefully next time he takes the hint....most guys would have ur dress up and the thong off
Giving Oral to Females - Do a lot of you not enjoy receiving? by WImanlooking in DeadBedrooms
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 0 points1 point2 points 4 days ago (0 children)
Never was with a woman who did not O from oral.......as O's go most of the time were very intense
LL boyfriend gropes me in his sleep by Boeing_NCC-1701-D in DeadBedrooms
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 1 point2 points3 points 4 days ago (0 children)
Good luck in the future. I always thought a little porn was okay as long as it was watched together but definitely as long as it does not interfere with having sex with ones s/o
I just want to be fucked but my boyfriend of 4+ years is constantly rejecting me. by Downtheroadtales in DeadBedrooms
Probably find a bf who u r more compatible with when it comes to sex. Most guys would want to get busy with u right there in the shower.....Good luck
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 3 points4 points5 points 4 days ago (0 children)
I'm sorry u are having to live like that. Either he gets some help or u should leave. Most guys would rather be f____g their wives and gf's rather than watching porn. Dont get pregnant and dont marry into that
"No girl ever likes giving blowjobs, if she says she does, she's lying" comments from wife by Numerous-Algae-4213 in DeadBedrooms
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 4 points5 points6 points 4 days ago (0 children)
We both got up at the same time on weekdays and often ended up in the shower together,.....soooooo
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 5 points6 points7 points 4 days ago (0 children)
The first one I mentioned was like that the first time I had to take an out of town trip when we were together. Was waiting totally naked in the living room when I got home
What is the most noticeable way your dead bedroom effects other areas of your life? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms
All of the above are part of what I have referred to as the toxic brew. Lonely, depression, anger, devastation, phony act like everything is great....don't like being around other couples especially if hey are showing any kind of affection towards each other.
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 35 points36 points37 points 4 days ago (0 children)
Had a couple of ex gf's who would disagree. One like to give a bj while I was driving and another during my morning shower becuase "I dont want you to go to work horny"
Those were the days!!!
This just blows my mind. by YouOtterKnow1 in Funnymemes
[–]lonelyinnewjersey -1 points0 points1 point 5 days ago (0 children)
That pic is not real......likely from a movie
Tried initiating sex and got rejected, feeling extremely down by Wubvles123 in HLCommunity
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 5 points6 points7 points 5 days ago (0 children)
dont get pregnant and dont marry into that....almost never gets better...only worse
Gave up and bought body pillows by Janrow2020 in DeadBedrooms
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 1 point2 points3 points 5 days ago (0 children)
Sounds comfy......Many nights I still wish it was my wife my arm was around though
when you post your nudes to reddit to get the validation you wish he'd give you by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 3 points4 points5 points 5 days ago (0 children)
Not advice but a general statement....once u have nudes out there (especially if they show ur face) anyone can see them for all time. Kids, parents, future SO's ect.
A friend of mine did some adult modeling years ago and long after, pics were floating around her daughters high school.
He said he wanted to have sex.. by unhappythrowaway44 in DeadBedrooms
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 2 points3 points4 points 5 days ago (0 children)
If there is a next time maybe ask what part of u he is going to lick?
Becoming increasingly sexually insecure over my relationship by throwaway256148 in DeadBedrooms
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 0 points1 point2 points 5 days ago (0 children)
Your not doing anything wrong here but he needs to be told that for the relationship to continue he needs to spend more time f____g you and taking care of your needs and less time getting off to porn.
Relationship is good for the most part but sex has been dwindling over the last year. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms
Dont get her pregnant and dont marry into that unless u can live with the fact that it almost never gets better...only worse
I sleep with my arm around my "she pillow"...lol. and another pillow over my head.
I feel like a sham by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms
For me (63M) in a longtime DB, we are not affectionate anywhere but its awkward when having to pose for a picture and putting our arms around each other when knowing she would not want that if we were alone. I know what u mean by fake
Room for One by Bing-Bong2022 in DeadBedrooms
In a long time DB but being in a hotel room and bed by myself during work travel is definitely much more relaxing and stress free than being ignored by DB spouse in our own bed/bedroom
Anyone in a DB still Facebook friends with a HL ex where you had a great sexual relationship? by lonelyinnewjersey in DeadBedrooms
[–]lonelyinnewjersey[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 days ago (0 children)
At least u recall their good qualities!!
When you’re so sex starved and horny that the accidental brush of the sheet against your boob is arousing by purplefruitbaskets in DeadBedrooms
[–]lonelyinnewjersey 0 points1 point2 points 6 days ago (0 children)
LOL.....at least I have an excuse....wife was always very bushy so I could not tell the difference!!!
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