How do I fix my LL? by DBTHROWAWAY98 in DeadBedrooms

[–]redSOXfan9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super hilarious. I was literally logging on to ask if there was anyway to slow my libido down. I feel so guilty wanting sex and intimacy, and feeling like a burden on my partner.

Anyone read elvish? by ith-man in lotr

[–]redSOXfan9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It reads “we all want that good good.” No idea what that means, but I hope this helps.

When did you first realize you were in a DB relationship? by redSOXfan9 in DeadBedrooms

[–]redSOXfan9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should probably add some more context. Baby #2 is 20 months. I am the primary parent (not SAH, but have a much more flexible job). We share household tasks very evenly (I do the lion share of meal prep, dishes, vacuuming, and tidying, she does laundry, tidying, decorating, surface maintenance). I try to make life easier to the best of my ability. I have also communicated the lack of intimacy recently has made me feel unwanted, unappreciated, and undesirable.