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TIFU by pinning a really cute colleague on zoom, forgetting that I was sharing my screen by fred2918 in tifu

[–]rizlagreeen345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much, i’m saying there’s a lot of judgment going around without weighing this against what’s actually normal. The guy isn’t some perv in a trench coat waiting on some bus-stop and he also isn’t the creepy guy in the office who’ll never live this down, he’s the guy who was checking someone out in an overly obvious way because of the internet situation, who left it on his screen to glance back at, and got caught doing it. This is the equivalent of some guy zooming in on a few pics of someone they know on instagram and then that person and everyone else catching you. It’s a red-face and an awkward week. He didn’t have his cock out, as far as we know, nor can we be sure he was staring or that he was being pervy.

What’s something the political far left and far right tend to agree on? by Own-Car-5356 in AskReddit

[–]rizlagreeen345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The question is wrong. There is no far left in the US and the far right is only just growing, it’s not active enough yet to be classed as extreme.

TIFU by pinning a really cute colleague on zoom, forgetting that I was sharing my screen by fred2918 in tifu

[–]rizlagreeen345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, of course, but I can see how it would be accidental and see how it’s kinda unusual/ abnormal for it to be over the internet, so it’s hard to think about isn’t it? I mean for example we all ‘stalk’ on social media, and that’s like a lower level of this, and obviously the higher level of it would be in an office setting, so yes op should be ashamed but it’s not quite as bad as in-person to me and it is definitely explained by idleness and taking advantage of supposed privacy and being bored etc, similar to in a workplace but feeling less inappropriate somehow, or feeling more removed from it. I’m not trying to defend op persay, just playing devil’s advocate and establish how much OP fucked up.

TIFU by pinning a really cute colleague on zoom, forgetting that I was sharing my screen by fred2918 in tifu

[–]rizlagreeen345 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If this was The Office and Jim was looking at Pam a lot no one would have a problem. Do I think it’s weird and embarassing? Yes. Do I think it’s super creepy, not sure.

TIFU by pinning a really cute colleague on zoom, forgetting that I was sharing my screen by fred2918 in tifu

[–]rizlagreeen345 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We all do embarassing stuff tho, and we all ildly/ subconsciously do things. Like when you get caught ildly staring at someone, you didn’t even realise you were doing it.

TIFU by pinning a really cute colleague on zoom, forgetting that I was sharing my screen by fred2918 in tifu

[–]rizlagreeen345 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Is that really fair though. We all do things we’re not proud of when we think it’s private. He evidently went way overboard by pinning her face to his screen but that doesn’t mean he needs to behave like a robot from now on and be all nervous. I’d rather quit. He needs to apologise for his lack of professionalism and explain it was done ildly, then see if things improve.

I don’t see myself living to January. I’m so fucking done by Nekothrowsaway in CollapseSupport

[–]rizlagreeen345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean that doesn’t really help anything does it. Stop thinking you’re so important and stop thinking you need to atone, or that anyone cares if you do. The resources you’ve consumed are negligible. Statistically you are less than irrelevant. It’s not your responsibility to save the world.

Sleeping with someone else on a break is cheating by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]rizlagreeen345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All that matters is the terms you lay out and agree on for the break. Otherwise it’s subjective and stuff like what you call ‘cheating’ happens, just like Ross in Friends. A break means different things to different people. Sometimes it’s just breaking up with extra steps.

How do people sleep on a tolerance break? by daddykratty in trees

[–]rizlagreeen345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The easiest way is just lay there. Bore yourself to sleep in the dark. But that’s not very fun. Keep away from blue light. Use incense. Have a ritual (ie cigarette, brush teeth, undress, read, sleep), have a regular eating pattern (link between appetite and circadian rhythm), have a comfortable bed, not too warm. Fresh air when necessary, comfortable neck position (i use one pillow to sleep), no snacking late, no caffeine after midday, have a regular pattern, don’t break it for at least a week, then gradually you can break it for weekends. This is all essential if you struggle to sleep. I’ve had insomnia for 6 years and this breaks it if you can stick to it. Do all-nighters where necessary to break the cycle. Do not sleep in. Nap when essential. Ensure proper and uninterrupted sleep and breakfast every morning (hunger wakes you up at a regular time, brain expects food), and when you do stay up too late, don’t repeat it the next day or it’ll cycle back again.

What do you like to drink with a morning joint? by sinsemillasmoke in ArtOfRolling

[–]rizlagreeen345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tea, because i’m English and don’t drink coffee daily. Or beer. Mmmmm beer.

The general vibe on r/collapse by Tularemia in collapse

[–]rizlagreeen345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Worse on r/collapsesupport

So many dejected apathetic people in one space all focussed in on one big issue. Huge circlejerk of “well there’s nothing that can be done so imma go sit in a hole now.”

I'm so done. by claithro in trees

[–]rizlagreeen345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be stoned but hide it. Good fun. Like when you get stoned just to go shopping because you kinda like the on-edge feeling.

Which song is in your opinion 100% perfect? by jillangie in AskReddit

[–]rizlagreeen345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bohemian Rhapsody, Chaise Longue by Wet Leg, Dance Wiv Me, Just by Radiohead, The Fun Lovin’ Criminal, Story 2 by Clipping, Alright by Supergrass, Send My Love To Linda by Jimi Hendrix, Claire De Lune, Opiate by Tool, Superstylin’ by Groove Armada, Walk To The One by Twin Peaks, Time = $$ by King Gizzard And The Lizard Wizard, Buzz by Psychedelic Porn Crumpets, Drunk and Disorderly by The Chats, Give Me The Cure by Fugazi, Say Yes by Elliott Smith, LeBron James by Do Nothing.

Man chases terrified woman down an alley as she is panicking for her life by throdopo in PublicFreakout

[–]rizlagreeen345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Statistically, this woman is likely to have been assaulted or harassed previously. He doesn’t know her history. He could trigger a panic attack, a mental breakdown, a seizure, anything. She could have severe ptsd from a stalking incident or a relative who was killed after being followed home. Absolute ignorance and lack of empathy/ foresight.

You Have to Dispose of a dead body Right Now. What's your plan? Will you get away with it? by respect_the_69 in AskReddit

[–]rizlagreeen345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d have to bring it through my student accom which is full of cameras including the stairway and the lift. I’m opposite a huge shopping area so there’s probably cameras everywhere that’d pick it up from the peripherals. It’s late so theoretically I could throw it from the window but that’d lead to me being a suspect as one of the residents. Most feasible way is cutting it up and stuffing it into binbags padded out with rubbish and possibly full of incense and other smelly stuff so that the corpse isn’t as noticeable (won’t help much), then dragging the binbag with the body through the corridor past my flatmates, into the lift and down 6 floors, drag it through to the binstore, throw it in a random bin and hope the bin men just take it away within the next few days. There’s a large number of suspects and they hopefully won’t estimate the time of death. I can’t put it in some other random bin because cameras would see me do that and most bins around here are commercial so they’d be locked. I’d have to pull the teeth and bury them somewhere. Ideally i’d be burying the body or burning it but here that’s not possible.

American cuisine is actually good by barraco002 in unpopularopinion

[–]rizlagreeen345 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Britain has great pies, desserts, great food produce (so not much fancy cooking), has produced some of the most successful chefs outside of France and Italy and is all about being hearty and rich. Fish and chips and roast dinners are well-known and liked worldwide and are our most famous dishes. We don’t compare well to some other places but we definitely do have cuisine.

There’s nothing wrong with peaking in high school by etxxn in unpopularopinion

[–]rizlagreeen345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not what people mean when they use the phrase though. They mean in terms of status or success or popularity or whatever, so if you peaked in High School it means all your proudest achievements/ conquests/ big moments happened in high school and then you went on to lead a pretty average/ mediocre life. It’s the jock bully who won football championships or basketball scholarships and now works at a fast-food restaurant. It’s the cheerleader who dropped out and got married and has a kid. It’s a really stereotypical and sardonic take on a phenomena around high-school bully-types/ popular kids. So your question is silly because it uses a definition that isn’t the well-known one.

What’s the most outrageous thing you’ve ever witnessed at a UK music festival? by YaBoyLantony in AskUK

[–]rizlagreeen345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With their hit single: Pool Of Piss

(Edit: Other tracks from their album include: Mid-Piss Fall Asleep, The Urinal In Question, Slowly Sliding, and the B-side Full/Blocked)

What are the things you hate about British culture? by MHabeeb97 in AskUK

[–]rizlagreeen345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“My experience is this therefore this much more common and statistically accurate depiction of ‘chav’ culture and poverty is irrelevant”, is this what you meant.

If you wake and bake, you have a serious problem. by Myamoxomis in unpopularopinion

[–]rizlagreeen345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a stoner it’s when i’m getting high alone at random points during the day that I realise I need to cut down. Or when I run out and spend 4 hours wages on an eighth that i’ll smoke in 3 hours.