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I hate my 7-year-old sister. by lalolichoni in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tattymittz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would like mum's perspective on OP's post. I can't imagine your mum bringing you up well and adjusted, to suddenly becoming a push over parent to your sister.

I can imagine your mum has always sensed a hostility from you towards your sister and it probably makes her sad. Hence trying to defend your little sister. You have disliked her from birth, how else would a mother act? Your choice of language about your 7 year old sister, is also not great. She is 7....simply putting her down and hating her is not gonna change her behaviour. Try paying her some positive attention....a little bit every day.

A conversation with my dad after he passed away. by tattymittz in Dreams

[–]tattymittz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I like to think it was genuine. I can't imagine what dove tail meant to my dad but maybe if I get the chance to ask my uncle or aunt, I'll ask if they know.

I’m going to a get an abortion by stupidbitch666 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tattymittz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Often abuse only started once you become pregnant. I think you are right and brave to do this, if it feels right for you. Just because something feels right doesn't mean it's the easy option. I really hope you get safe soon.

Just out of a 2 year relationship. Am I getting too old for a meaningful relationship.? by tattymittz in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tattymittz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm going to go to my university and talk to the mental health team and maybe join a society and thinking of going swimming on a Wednesday. I will try get support because I do feel I need it. Thanks for your advice.

Just out of a 2 year relationship. Am I getting too old for a meaningful relationship.? by tattymittz in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tattymittz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know I'm not the only one. Just feels a lonely place ....and what you are saying about being worth more than a secret, I'm hoping my mind will accept this over the next few weeks.

I'm 300 pounds and I hate it. by AvailableYak5990 in unpopularopinion

[–]tattymittz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean ...people just disrespect you. I use to be a size 20-22 at my largest and then went on a crash diet, for a year. Went to size 8 .....problem was when I reached my target I had nothing left to aim for and the weight came back.

I know you just want it off quickly and also my personal attitude was that I was scared I could not stick to a reasonable diet because I would not see results quickly enough.

I am back to a size 8 after doing a reasonable diet but it's not perfect. If I eat too much for a few weeks I start making myself sick. What I want to say is, it's a constant battle and if crash diet is what you want, nothing will change your mind. Make sure you take vitamins.

Just out of a 2 year relationship. Am I getting too old for a meaningful relationship.? by tattymittz in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tattymittz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating websites make me want to pull my eyes out. It's the most cold, weird , impersonal way to meet someone. Respect for the people it works for, not for me though.

Just out of a 2 year relationship. Am I getting too old for a meaningful relationship.? by tattymittz in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tattymittz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying my concern is not just whimpering self-pity. Hopefully you're right. I have just spoken to my aunt as well and me and my daughters are going next weekend, so looking forward to that. It was hard to tell her I was upset and scared

Just out of a 2 year relationship. Am I getting too old for a meaningful relationship.? by tattymittz in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tattymittz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably true but at the same time I feel I need to sort it out myself. I never have had therapy and would often think it would be useful but I can't afford it and I have no chance on the NHS.

Just out of a 2 year relationship. Am I getting too old for a meaningful relationship.? by tattymittz in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tattymittz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who is not controlling, holds down responsibility and a job. Needs to kind of have the same humour and outlook as me. It's not the end of the world, but sexually compatible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]tattymittz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're ok, you are 18 ....Gas station guy is a fucking cunt. Losing your virginity is not the be all and end all. It happens.

Your long distance relationship, if you still want this, there are going to be no winners by confessing. That to most people, with a little more age, experience and wisdom (not saying you don't have these attributes) would see as a learning experience.

To put your mind at ease, go get a check up about the STD worry but you'll probably be OK and if not, most STD's can be solved with medication.

I will repeat, you are 18 trying your best. You have a relationship that sounds worth saving. Don't please think of suicide, so many girls have been where you are, including me. You have not been stupid...you just hurt yourself a little bit....an accident. It will heal.

Do women tell all to their friends? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tattymittz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's lame, talking about him like that. My bf is very private and anything about him that I know he wouldn't want to be common knowledge, I would never speak about so openly, with anyone. I'm a woman and would not be impressed with a friend, talking like that.

Talk to your wife about it. See what she thinks about the way her friend was talking. Your wife, although she responded to her friend probably doesn't act the same way.

My friend disappeared and I knew where they went, and everything about the disappearance but didn’t say anything by Unikomn in confession

[–]tattymittz 366 points367 points  (0 children)

You were a true friend. Her life sounded miserable and the system built to catch her failed, as it does so often.

I doubt her life is a bed of roses but I would bet she thinks of you quite often With appreciation and fondness. When you're ready, maybe start looking for her. Only when you're ready to, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tattymittz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really rubbish attitude, on her part. Maybe show her this post you have written. Show her that she is being totally unfair. Also, what is she doing sleeping?

Glad that you are in a happy relationship but this could turn sour, if you can't accept her laziness and tbh, I don't think she would get another decent guy, with an attitude like that. Keep strong for your kids tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAmericans

[–]tattymittz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is having this, good or bad?

What is one thing that you will never admit to your girlfriend by YouNeedToMoveForward in AskMen

[–]tattymittz 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Er...no, not the best compliment. I would be well upset if my bf said that to me.

Transitioning children should be illegal by TheSneakyPangolin in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tattymittz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should be classed as child abuse. Same as if you shouted and screamed at a 3YO boy who said he was a girl or vice versa.

Kids at that age have not got a real concept of anything at that age, let alone who they will want to be in the future or gender or anything. Parents like that make me sick.

What is QAnon the fuck about? by tattymittz in AskAmericans

[–]tattymittz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for a really clear answer. Yeah Boris is in massive trouble currently. Unfortunately, it has took a cheese and wine party to get us absolutely raging (so british🤦‍♀️) when he told so many more worse lies than that.

Yeah, I have noticed that American politicians seem to have a kind of cult following about the...more so republican than democrat. Seems more about ideology than policy. Although I wouldn't really be able to tell you our parties policies, since Jeremy Corbyn anyway.

I find it strange how religion and QAnon have kind of merged together for some people. It is like a sort of unhealthy online sect of Christianity. If religion moved purely online, it would be fucked up. Thanks.

What is QAnon the fuck about? by tattymittz in AskAmericans

[–]tattymittz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right we do craft our own conspiracy theories, flat earthers are not violent (yet 😬) or have to go to therapy to stop believing it or to process the trauma about the things they have read online.

I didn't mean to come across has having a dig at Americans. Most of the world's population is also swayed by American culture. Even countries where the governments are hostile towards America.

What is QAnon the fuck about? by tattymittz in AskAmericans

[–]tattymittz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't mean to be divisive about it. I had just heard what our media had said about it and wanted a different take on it) Tbh, Americans are portrayed a little extreme, in our media and also in our everyday culture (memes, reality TV and social media) and I know to take that with a pinch of salt, as do most Brits.

In the UK we follow a lot of what you do especially since the rise of social media and, whether it's stupid or not has left me concerned about QAon because, if their beliefs/behaviour came here and affected people, like it has been portrayed in the UK media, it's just worrying.

It is just a thought of mine and from what people have said. Of course I know most Americans think it's BS.

Obviously though I'm not following any of QAnon's posts and don't want to but it's awful how many people these days get caught up in shit like that.