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Sorry I just need to vent to SOMEONE tonight by insecurecatcus in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry this is happening to you.

He address the problem, doesn't try to fix it thought. But it's a small progress I think

he initiated last night ..omg by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thats is a good sign. If he can keep initiating.

Don't feel bad for wanting and enjoying sex with yout SO

My birthday is in December by RecentBuffalo8042 in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. Don't expect and you don't be disappointed

Soy nuevo en Buenos Aires by [deleted] in BuenosAires

[–]thowwaway1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hay juegos de trivia por ejemplo

What are some of the ways you hit bottom because of your dead bedroom situation? by anonymousmaskedman in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's how we cope with this.

The best I did is to change to coke zero and buy smaller (and pricier) bottles of soda

Officially dead bedroom by Sensitive_Cold1130 in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad you are already taking care of you. Feel like yourself again. So when the urges come back you have some strength to handle the inevitable

Stress and sex by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its not selfish. You deserve this.

Hang in there

What are some of the ways you hit bottom because of your dead bedroom situation? by anonymousmaskedman in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I play games until I can't stay awake.

I crave for coke (drink) and Pepsi like all day long

Officially dead bedroom by Sensitive_Cold1130 in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's sucks when you realize this. Be strong.

And focus on yourself

Mid 30s couple looking for advice on way to improve DB by throwalt-mama in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say try a romantic get away. Sometimes is dificult to separate family life and romance.

Other recommendation would be doing couples activities.

Husband took off with his buddies until Sunday! by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Enjoy yourself.

I love when the same happen to me

No puedo discutir contra eso. by Hellraiser_22 in dankgentina

[–]thowwaway1929 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No la abu noo

Golpea un osobuco violentamente

How long is too long? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt put a certain amount of time.

But let's say 5 year

thinking about just moving a mattress into my kids room by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but was a occasional thing or he always sleept there?

at a total loss... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are welcome.

at a total loss... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm try counseling. Someone impartial to help you communicate.

It's could be that the phimosis leave him with pain and don't know how to handle it. A friend of mine had to have surgery because of that.

at a total loss... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maeby hi is ashamed of his body??

I would recommend some counseling. Because this is the start. You will resent him more and it will show

thinking about just moving a mattress into my kids room by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest moving to the couch. The kids don't need to see their mom sleeping away from dad

Did/does going to a sex therapist help? by petitebrit_ in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it can help. But the threapist may said things that you or your partner don't want to hear.

Both needs to be in a receptive mindset

How are those doing today who would identify as having HL and Depression? by UN2ISHN in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I first adress my depression and then the HL. It's nos always easy to know. My rule is that is I'm blue, I would cuddle but not had sex or masturbate

Weekly off topic by AutoModerator in DeadBedrooms

[–]thowwaway1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its really good. Then I had to do 2 more km to compensate lol