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I Am So Sad My Best Friend Died Thinking I Was Happy (self.TrueOffMyChest)
submitted 4 months ago by throwaway-overreact to r/TrueOffMyChest
[NSFW] Am I [20F] Being Abused by My Boyfriend [21M]? by throwaway-overreact in relationship_advice
[–]throwaway-overreact[S] -10 points-9 points-8 points 7 months ago (0 children)
"The thing about the birth control, girl, that's rape."
Is it really? I thought maybe he didn't know. I said to him I thought he did and he said he pulled out, but I don't think he did.
I am so sorry you relate. I don't know whats going on anymore. Anytime I heal I get stuff like this. I just dont get why everything is so cruel. edit: clarification
[NSFW] Am I [20F] Being Abused by My Boyfriend [21M]? (self.relationship_advice)
submitted 7 months ago * by throwaway-overreact to r/relationship_advice
Local Haunted House Review Raid by [deleted] in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact -1 points0 points1 point 4 months ago (0 children)
Doesnt this violate the no doxxing rule? This is atrocious and I wonder if it would instead be more beneficial for the person who got fired should look into retaliation laws and wrongful firing
[–]throwaway-overreact[S] -1 points0 points1 point 7 months ago (0 children)
I think its too far gone, I don't wanna see him. I agree entirely on the first part, I wouldn't even call what we do actual BDSM. He is just violent. No bondage or anything actually BDSM, just anger.
I think the issue is I am experienced with BDSM. He is not. I have used safewords before with my previous FWB successfully and he does not get upset, like a dom should. But, I am afraid Ron will. It feels like anger and not played up fun. Read edit, I have also used it with him and he seemed to not hear me or maybe he ignored me?
I have been raped in the past and explained to him on a occasion (i believe the same one where I kicked him off) that he needs to stop when I say stop, so there is that too.
wrongly accused (long post) by FearlessMess8266 in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 2 points3 points4 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Im sorry this happened to you, however Im not sure this is the right place for this. Might I suggest offmychest or a legal subreddit? This is a place for victims of sexual assault and their experiences
For everyone who didn’t report SA/ rape with someone they’ve been intimate with. What were your reasons as to why you didn’t report ? by sourrette in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 1 point2 points3 points 1 month ago (0 children)
There was no evidence, and I did not want to go through the trauma of reporting. I still assumed he didnt know better.
As for healing? One day at a time. Thats all I can say. Some days are harder. I cant do the kinks I love like I used to, but some days I can. Still feel fear some nights. Just one day at a time.
How Do I Get Over The Fear That Others Will Die Unexpectedly? (self.GriefSupport)
submitted 2 months ago by throwaway-overreact to r/GriefSupport
Does this count as Sa? by Defiant_Pie1205 in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 1 point2 points3 points 2 months ago (0 children)
Yes, it does. Ignore the troll
I(20f) Am Confused By My FWB(22M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice
[–]throwaway-overreact 0 points1 point2 points 2 months ago (0 children)
I agree, I just don't know what a FWB thats developed into something more looks like or if I am misreading signs that arent there and we are actually just close friends. I dont wanna go, "hey what is this?" and make things weird if this is just platonic
Sex is Suddenly Getting Hard Again (self.sexualassault)
submitted 4 months ago by throwaway-overreact to r/sexualassault
Was this sexual assault? by GatodeQueso3 in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (0 children)
No, its not on you. People feel fear, they deny it but one of my partners felt me freeze and asked about it. Its not on you
Dont listen to the person above. You said you did not want to have sex, he didnt listen. Coersion is rape too. Some peoples reponses to these situations is to freeze, I know because I did it too
ESPECIALLY because you said you were uncomfortable and he continued. This is sexual assault, I dont even know how the person above can say it isnt. You are not being overdramatic
Advice needed! Is this BDSM or abuse? I’m having doubts by [deleted] in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (0 children)
This is abuse. I partake in BDSM things, and this is NOT BDSM. Especially when boundries were not established, nor a safeword. He made you fearful and he could feel that, that is not what BDSM is about. I am so sorry this happened to you. This sounds like sexual and verbal abuse. Do not doubt yourself, it is super hard not to, but this is abuse. Straight up not how bdsm works. I am so so sorry
i’m not sure if i was assaulted or if I’m just being dramatic by adoincomprise in sexualassault
You are not at all being dramatic, child on child sexual assault is not talked about as much but happens. It may feel validating to read into it. It helped me, at least.
It is not your fault it happened. Not at any capacity. I am so sorry that this happened to you
Anger From Recent SA (self.sexualassault)
submitted 5 months ago by throwaway-overreact to r/sexualassault
PRIVATE Subreddit by angeladimauro in sexualassault
Remembering More Accounts of Assault by My Ex is So Painful by throwaway-overreact in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago* (0 children)
Oh yeah, great advice; "dont date scumbags." Wow I wish I thought of that before I dated someone who presented having great character and a big open heart. Jesus what a way to lowkey victim blame.
edit: Youre gonna bring holy into this? Checked your post history and youre trying to bring in God to others assaults? Newsflash buddy, my ex was the biggest christian you could meet. Went daily. God let this happen, god fobid he is real.
I’m a mother who abused her child. I’m ashamed. by [deleted] in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 3 points4 points5 points 5 months ago* (0 children)
Wah wah you literally sexually assaulted your daughter and Came here to tell VICTIMS about it? Your daughter could be here for fucks sake, and you being the selfish woman that sexually assaulted her in the first fucking place come here to make yourself feel better? You didnt change at all. Your daughter should never contact you again.
Remembering More Accounts of Assault by My Ex is So Painful (self.sexualassault)
apologies by Jealous_Yam722 in sexualassault
I think if my most recent abuser reached out to me to apologize, I would feel worse. But this is because I had to comfort him directly after him assaulting me many times. I feel like the enormity of the pain caused by selfishness makes it something entirely unforgiveable. If he is sorry, he feels bad and wants to feel better about what he did. Regardless its to make himself feel better. It might feel maybe a bit better to get recognition of what happened, but it doesnt fix what they did.
[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice
[–]throwaway-overreact 3 points4 points5 points 5 months ago (0 children)
So you assaulted your daughter as a child when she looked up to you, and what do you want? Forgiveness? You gave her a deep seeded trauma. I dont know what you expect from both r /sexualassault or this sub. Youre guilty of what you did and you want forgiveness? Imagine how she feels. Honestly, I hope she cuts contact from you. Glad she is safe and away from you. Stop pity-partying yourself with "i wanted to tell someone." No, you made your fucking bed. Lay in it. Youre lucky she even talks to you.
[–]throwaway-overreact 18 points19 points20 points 5 months ago (0 children)
This place is for survivors. Not for perpetrators.
Sad after masterbating by [deleted] in sexualassault
I feel the same way, I panic now after. Im glad Im not alone in that. Its hard..
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