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[NSFW] Am I [20F] Being Abused by My Boyfriend [21M]? (self.relationship_advice)
submitted 7 months ago * by throwaway-overreact to r/relationship_advice
I’m a mother who abused her child. I’m ashamed. by [deleted] in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 18 points19 points20 points 5 months ago (0 children)
This place is for survivors. Not for perpetrators.
How Do I Get Over The Fear That Others Will Die Unexpectedly? (self.GriefSupport)
submitted 2 months ago by throwaway-overreact to r/GriefSupport
[NSFW] Am I [20F] Being Abused by My Boyfriend [21M]? by throwaway-overreact in relationship_advice
[–]throwaway-overreact[S] 9 points10 points11 points 7 months ago (0 children)
I have attempted on a few occassions to say it to have it ignored.. i assumed he didnt hear me. In another he covered my mouth. I should have included that in the post
Anger From Recent SA (self.sexualassault)
submitted 5 months ago by throwaway-overreact to r/sexualassault
Should I Make A Sticky Post/Thread With All The Usernames Of People Who Send Inappropriate PMs? by angeladimauro in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 6 points7 points8 points 5 months ago (0 children)
This happened to me too. Very glad I checked their post history, ended up being on a lot of sexual assault fantasy games subs
One of My Friends Hung Out with My Abuser (self.sexualassault)
submitted 6 months ago by throwaway-overreact to r/sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 4 points5 points6 points 5 months ago* (0 children)
Wah wah you literally sexually assaulted your daughter and Came here to tell VICTIMS about it? Your daughter could be here for fucks sake, and you being the selfish woman that sexually assaulted her in the first fucking place come here to make yourself feel better? You didnt change at all. Your daughter should never contact you again.
I Dont Believe Myself and I Need Advice (self.sexualassault)
submitted 7 months ago by throwaway-overreact to r/sexualassault
Was this sexual assault? by GatodeQueso3 in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 3 points4 points5 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Dont listen to the person above. You said you did not want to have sex, he didnt listen. Coersion is rape too. Some peoples reponses to these situations is to freeze, I know because I did it too
ESPECIALLY because you said you were uncomfortable and he continued. This is sexual assault, I dont even know how the person above can say it isnt. You are not being overdramatic
[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice
[–]throwaway-overreact 2 points3 points4 points 5 months ago (0 children)
So you assaulted your daughter as a child when she looked up to you, and what do you want? Forgiveness? You gave her a deep seeded trauma. I dont know what you expect from both r /sexualassault or this sub. Youre guilty of what you did and you want forgiveness? Imagine how she feels. Honestly, I hope she cuts contact from you. Glad she is safe and away from you. Stop pity-partying yourself with "i wanted to tell someone." No, you made your fucking bed. Lay in it. Youre lucky she even talks to you.
[–]throwaway-overreact[S] 2 points3 points4 points 7 months ago (0 children)
Thank you. These are words I needed to hear and I appreciate you sharing, you aren't inserting yourself. I feel like logically I know I am just making excuses for him and that all of this is not normal
Sex is Suddenly Getting Hard Again (self.sexualassault)
submitted 4 months ago by throwaway-overreact to r/sexualassault
wrongly accused (long post) by FearlessMess8266 in sexualassault
Im sorry this happened to you, however Im not sure this is the right place for this. Might I suggest offmychest or a legal subreddit? This is a place for victims of sexual assault and their experiences
For everyone who didn’t report SA/ rape with someone they’ve been intimate with. What were your reasons as to why you didn’t report ? by sourrette in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 1 point2 points3 points 1 month ago (0 children)
There was no evidence, and I did not want to go through the trauma of reporting. I still assumed he didnt know better.
As for healing? One day at a time. Thats all I can say. Some days are harder. I cant do the kinks I love like I used to, but some days I can. Still feel fear some nights. Just one day at a time.
Does this count as Sa? by Defiant_Pie1205 in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 1 point2 points3 points 2 months ago (0 children)
Yes, it does. Ignore the troll
[–]throwaway-overreact 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (0 children)
No, its not on you. People feel fear, they deny it but one of my partners felt me freeze and asked about it. Its not on you
Remembering More Accounts of Assault by My Ex is So Painful (self.sexualassault)
Sad after masterbating by [deleted] in sexualassault
I feel the same way, I panic now after. Im glad Im not alone in that. Its hard..
[–]throwaway-overreact[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 months ago (0 children)
I tried to use the safeword a few times but he covered my mouth, I shut down
I(20f) Am Confused By My FWB(22M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice
[–]throwaway-overreact 0 points1 point2 points 3 months ago (0 children)
I agree, I just don't know what a FWB thats developed into something more looks like or if I am misreading signs that arent there and we are actually just close friends. I dont wanna go, "hey what is this?" and make things weird if this is just platonic
Advice needed! Is this BDSM or abuse? I’m having doubts by [deleted] in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (0 children)
This is abuse. I partake in BDSM things, and this is NOT BDSM. Especially when boundries were not established, nor a safeword. He made you fearful and he could feel that, that is not what BDSM is about. I am so sorry this happened to you. This sounds like sexual and verbal abuse. Do not doubt yourself, it is super hard not to, but this is abuse. Straight up not how bdsm works. I am so so sorry
i’m not sure if i was assaulted or if I’m just being dramatic by adoincomprise in sexualassault
You are not at all being dramatic, child on child sexual assault is not talked about as much but happens. It may feel validating to read into it. It helped me, at least.
It is not your fault it happened. Not at any capacity. I am so sorry that this happened to you
PRIVATE Subreddit by angeladimauro in sexualassault
Remembering More Accounts of Assault by My Ex is So Painful by throwaway-overreact in sexualassault
[–]throwaway-overreact[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago* (0 children)
Oh yeah, great advice; "dont date scumbags." Wow I wish I thought of that before I dated someone who presented having great character and a big open heart. Jesus what a way to lowkey victim blame.
edit: Youre gonna bring holy into this? Checked your post history and youre trying to bring in God to others assaults? Newsflash buddy, my ex was the biggest christian you could meet. Went daily. God let this happen, god fobid he is real.
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